Pride—the subtle sin that convinces us we're self-sufficient—might be the greatest spiritual danger we face today. Drawing powerful lessons from King Nebuchadnezzar's dramatic fall and restoration in Daniel 4, this episode examines how pride infiltrates our hearts and culture, gradually pulling us away from dependence on God.

When life runs smoothly, we often forget who provides our blessings. Bills paid, family healthy, career advancing—suddenly we believe we're managing fine on our own. Prosperity becomes a spiritual test many of us fail. Yet when crisis strikes—illness, financial collapse, relationship breakdown—we quickly remember our need for divine intervention. This inconsistency reveals our struggle with true dependence.

Nebuchadnezzar's story serves as a stark warning. Despite witnessing God's power through multiple miracles, the king's pride remained intact. His magnificent accomplishments—including the Hanging Gardens of Babylon—led him to believe his success came solely from his own brilliance. God's response was a disturbing dream interpreted by Daniel: the king would lose his sanity until he acknowledged "that heaven rules." For seven years, the once-mighty ruler lived like a wild animal, separated from human society.

Pride manifests in three crucial areas we must guard against: prosperity that breeds complacency, taking credit for achievements instead of recognizing God as the source, and believing our wisdom exceeds God's. The antidotes? Daily dependence through prayer, cultivating genuine gratitude, and accepting God's authority without reservation.

As we navigate an increasingly secular culture where personal opinion trumps divine wisdom, Nebuchadnezzar's ultimate restoration offers hope. When he finally lifted his eyes toward heaven, his sanity returned. The path forward requires sincere worship, trusting God's ways even when we don't understand them, and embracing true humility—not thinking less of ourselves, but thinking about ourselves less.

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We've all felt it—that subtle shift when the person sleeping next to you starts feeling more like a housemate than a soulmate. The passionate connection that once defined your relationship has been replaced by practical coexistence, separate routines, and conversations limited to household logistics.

Our new series "Marriage Reset" begins with an honest exploration of how marriages drift from deep connection to mere cohabitation. Through the story of Caleb and Lena—marriage experts who found themselves emotionally disconnected despite their professional knowledge—we examine the gradual process that transforms loving partners into familiar strangers.

Drawing from Scripture, relationship research, and our own painful journey back from the brink of divorce, we unpack the concept of "little foxes" from Song of Solomon—those small, seemingly insignificant issues that quietly erode a marriage foundation when left unaddressed. These aren't dramatic betrayals but subtle neglects: conversations that never happen, affection that goes unexpressed, and dreams that remain unshared.

Research reveals startling statistics: 40-50% of first marriages end in divorce, with "growing apart" consistently among the top reasons cited. But what causes this drift? We dive into multiple studies highlighting the five key areas where marriages typically struggle: sexual connection, conflict resolution, communication, shared responsibility, and quality time together.

Our own busy lives—juggling full-time jobs, ministry work, podcast production, and family responsibilities—could easily have pulled us permanently apart had we not recognized the warning signs. We share the intentional practices that have helped us maintain connection despite overwhelming schedules, from never leaving without a goodbye kiss to making space for each other's interests.

This episode isn't just about identifying problems but starting the journey toward reconnection. If you've felt that growing distance in your marriage or want to prevent it from happening, this series will provide practical wisdom for transforming your relationship from a practical arrangement back into the soul-deep connection it was meant to be.

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Have you ever struggled to make sense of tragedy and suffering in a world created by a loving God? The tension between faith and heartbreak lies at the heart of this week's episode of our "Unshaken" series, where we confront one of faith's most challenging questions: Why would God allow pain in the lives of those who love Him?

Through the moving story of 16-year-old Sid Ortis, whose battle with cancer transformed an Alabama community, we explore what happens when faith collides with devastating reality. When an entire neighborhood traded their crimson and white for LSU's purple and gold to support this brave young man, they demonstrated the power of community during life's darkest moments. Yet Sid's eventual passing raises the question that has challenged believers throughout history—why doesn't God heal everyone?

Jumping into the ancient story of Job, we discover a man whose extraordinary faith withstood the loss of everything he held dear. Despite watching his wealth, his servants, and most devastatingly, all ten of his children vanish in a single day, Job's immediate response was worship: "The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; may the name of the Lord be praised." His journey reveals that questioning God isn't forbidden, but our perspective matters deeply.

The episode unpacks three essential foundations for unshakable faith: believing God is all-powerful (omnipotent), all-knowing (omniscient), and ever-present (omnipresent). These "omni-beliefs" don't eliminate our questions, but they provide a framework for trusting God even when His ways seem beyond comprehension. As Isaiah reminds us, "My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways."

We also confront the sobering reality that something is always competing for our worship. Whether it's career advancement, sports, relationships, or other pursuits, these competitors for our devotion can subtly replace God at the center of our hearts. The warning is clear and profound: "We become what we worship."

For anyone questioning God's goodness in the face of suffering or distracted by competing devotions, this episode offers a compassionate invitation to surrender—not to blind faith, but to a God whose character remains trustworthy even when His ways remain mysterious. Because in the end, true worship isn't about understanding everything; it's about trusting the One who does.

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The world grows increasingly hostile to biblical values, leaving many Christians wondering how to remain faithful without facing severe consequences. Drawing from personal experience with grief after losing my father to cancer, worship became my anchor during life's darkest moments, bringing the "peace beyond understanding" promised in Philippians 4:7.

The frightening parallels between Daniel's Babylon and today's culture cannot be ignored. We face growing hostility toward faith, directives that challenge core beliefs, real consequences for non-compliance, and cultural backlash for standing firm in our convictions. Since prayer was removed from American schools in 1962, we've witnessed a cascading series of moral compromises that have fundamentally altered our nation's foundation – from skyrocketing teenage pregnancy rates to declining educational performance despite increased spending.

Daniel's response to the king's decree forbidding prayer offers a powerful example for believers today. He didn't panic, protest, or complain about injustice – he simply continued praying three times daily as he always had, accepting the potential consequences. This unwavering faith required remarkable courage, the same courage available to us when we spend consistent time in God's presence.

The early disciples demonstrated this courage after Pentecost, speaking boldly despite threats. People noticed they were ordinary men who had "been with Jesus." Their example reminds us that courage flows not from education or status but from connection with Christ. As pressures mount to remain silent about our faith, remember Jesus' sobering warning: "Everyone who denies me here on earth, I will also deny before my Father in heaven."

Will you continue worshiping when culture says stop? Will you build your life on the unchanging truth of God's Word rather than shifting opinions? In a world where many boldly express their views, we must find courage to stand firm and speak God's truth with grace – not to prove we're right, but to genuinely share His hope. The time for courageous faith is now.

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What happens when life threatens everything you love?

I start out this week's episode with my wife, Michelle's, medical journey - from severe migraines to a botched hysterectomy that nearly cost her a kidney. Through the darkest moments, our mantra became "not today, Satan," as we fought to hold tight to our faith while medical disasters compounded. This raw testimony reveals how personal crisis becomes either the breaking point or the refining fire for our deepest convictions.

Faith that remains untested is faith that remains unproven. The episode explores how Daniel from the Bible knowingly embraced tests rather than avoiding them - requesting a ten-day vegetable diet trial that would eventually elevate him in Nebuchadnezzar's court. This pattern appears throughout Scripture, where the number ten consistently represents the testing of faithfulness. When we face our cultural Babylon, do we shrink back or step forward?

A modern story from a young Christian named Chet working in Manhattan's cutthroat media industry demonstrates this principle brilliantly. When publicly humiliated for his faith by his team leader, Chet made the countercultural choice to respond with forgiveness rather than retaliation. "I've never had someone say that to me," his stunned colleague later admitted. "You actually live what you say you believe." This powerful moment opened doors for conversations that mockery never could.

The etymology of courage - from "cor" meaning heart - reveals why worship becomes our lifeline in crisis. When everything feels overwhelming, time spent in God's presence realigns our perspective and furnishes supernatural strength. As Daniel explains, "The longer you devote to Jesus, the less time you will waste being daunted by the views of others or fretting about your dilemmas."

Culture wants to claim you through tests and trials, but you don't have to surrender. Stand firm, knowing you have all you need to face whatever challenges come your way - the unshakable courage of the Lord himself.

Ready to strengthen your faith for the inevitable tests? Listen now and discover how trials become the proving ground for unshakable faith.

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Think boundaries are barriers to intimacy? Think again. In this week's episode, we dive deep into why boundaries are not just good for marriage—they're essential to God's design for relational flourishing.

Drawing from scripture and personal experience, we unpack how most couples struggle with boundaries due to fear of conflict or appearing selfish. What makes this especially challenging in marriage is the vulnerability that comes with complete commitment. As one of us shares, "When you're dating, you overlook things because you're so in love. But marriage demands more honesty about our needs and limits."

The heart of healthy boundaries lies in understanding individual responsibility before God. While marriage unites two people as one flesh, each spouse remains accountable for their own actions, emotions, and spiritual growth. This creates a beautiful paradox: by honoring our separate responsibilities, we actually create deeper unity.

We explore the critical difference between supporting your spouse and carrying their emotional load. True support says, "I'm here with you," not "I'll do it for you." This distinction protects both partners from resentment, enabling authentic connection rather than codependency.

Perhaps most powerfully, we reveal how boundaries in marriage mirror God's own nature. Just as God establishes moral, relational, and spiritual boundaries throughout scripture, our marital boundaries reflect His character of love, truth, and wisdom. These aren't arbitrary restrictions but loving safeguards that protect what's sacred.

Has your marriage been missing these divine guardrails? Join us as we continue this vital conversation in the coming weeks, exploring specific types of boundaries and practical ways to implement them. And stay tuned for our upcoming series "Marriage Reset: How to Become Soulmates When You Fell Like Roommates"—because every couple deserves more than mere coexistence.

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