His Lordship, Oneness, and Love in His Family
God’s ultimate desire has never been for a group of isolated believers walking separate paths—it has always been for a family. A people joined together by His Spirit, not by their own efforts or personal preferences. As Ron shares, we simply don’t have the capacity to create that kind of unity by ourselves. Yet we do have the capacity to show up—to open our hearts, to listen, and to speak words of life to one another. The Holy Spirit is the one who melts and welds us together into one living expression of God’s family on earth. This kind of oneness doesn’t come easily; it requires a willingness to die to our own independence and to embrace one another in the Spirit, even when personalities or past hurts might make it difficult.
Monnie reminds us that this oneness is rooted in the same love that the Father and the Son share. “Father, that they may be one as We are one,” Christ prayed. That divine oneness is not merely unity of purpose—it is love itself. To love the Lord with all our heart, soul, and mind is inseparable from loving one another deeply. In the family of God, love is not an option; it is the very atmosphere in which true relationship and spiritual maturity grow. When we open our hearts to love as He loves, we begin to experience the fullness of that divine oneness He prayed for.
Rick builds on this truth, pointing out that our unity can only be found in Christ Jesus. Outside of Him, oneness is impossible. As we walk in the light—His light—we naturally have fellowship with one another. Division fades when our focus is centered on Him. The Apostle Paul exhorted believers in 1 Corinthians 1:10 to be “of the same mind and the same judgment,” calling them to maturity and harmony in Christ. When our eyes are fixed on the Lord, we find the grace to love, to forgive, and to walk together as one body.
Dale reminds us that everything flows from His Lordship. True agreement comes when Christ is truly Lord over our lives. When the cross has done its work—when the old nature has died and the new creation has risen—then unity is the natural result. The family of God is found among those who submit to His Lordship and walk in His grace. As Sherry beautifully concludes, “I’m in your heart, you’re in mine.” That’s the love and oneness of His family—Christ in us, the hope of glory.
Reflection Questions
1. What does it mean to you personally that God is seeking a family, not just individuals?
2. How can you open your heart more fully to your brothers and sisters in Christ, even when it’s uncomfortable?
3. In what ways does your relationship with the Lord influence your ability to walk in unity with others?
4. How can you let the Lordship of Christ bring transformation in areas where division or self-will remain?
5. What does “Christ in His many-membered body” look like in your life and community today?