A Day In the Life… Stage 4
I’m just going to put it right out there. “Of the fourth degree of love: wherein man does not even love self, save for God’s sake.” “How blessed is he who reaches the fourth degree of love, wherein one loves himself only in God!”
Bernard says this of one reaching this fourth degree of love, “I would count him blessed and holy to whom such rapture has been vouchsafed (granted) in this mortal life, for even an instant to lose thyself, as if thou wert emptied and lost and swallowed up in God, is no human love; it is celestial.”
The modern church barely, if at all, acknowledges the need to love God wholly unselfishly and only because He is God, but the thought of loving yourself only because you were Created by that God… totally unheard of! And, totally obvious!
More from Bernard, “Seeing that the Scripture saith, God has made all for His own glory (Isa. 43.7), surely His creatures ought to conform themselves, as much as they can, to His will. In Him should all our affections center, so that in all things we should seek only to do His will, not to please ourselves. And real happiness will come, not in gratifying our desires or in gaining transient pleasures, but in accomplishing God’s will for us: even as we pray every day: ‘Thy will be done in earth as it is in heaven’ (Matt. 6.10). O chaste and holy love! O sweet and gracious affection! O pure and cleansed purpose, thoroughly washed and purged from any admixture of selfishness, and sweetened by contact with the divine will! To reach this state is to become godlike. As a drop of water poured into wine loses itself, and takes the color and savor of wine; or as a bar of iron, heated red-hot, becomes like fire itself, forgetting its own nature; or as the air, radiant with sun-beams, seems not so much to be illuminated as to be light itself; so in the saints all human affections melt away by some unspeakable transmutation into the will of God. For how could God be all in all, if anything merely human remained in man? The substance will endure, but in another beauty, a higher power, a greater glory.”
“Wherefore the soul may hope to possess the fourth degree of love, or rather to be possessed by it, only when it has been clothed upon with that spiritual and immortal body, which will be perfect, peaceful, lovely, and in everything wholly subjected to the spirit.”
While Bernard acknowledges that our “weak, sickly bodies” will always draw our attention back to ourselves, and therefore believes Stage 4 is only truly attainable in our final rebirth, he also wonders, “May we not think that the holy martyrs enjoyed this grace, in some degree at least, before they laid down their victorious bodies? Surely that was immeasurable strength of love which enraptured their souls, enabling them to laugh at fleshly torments and to yield their lives gladly.”
What should we conclude from this? “Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me” (Philippians 3:12).
Being short of the destination is no excuse to stop driving, throw out the GPS, give anyone else bad directions, or pass out sandwiches without a map!
See you next time,
Scott A Caughel
Pursuit of Character Ministries



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