I donât know where it came from, but now it seems to be everywhere. I hear it on podcasts and TV shows. Iâve seen it on T-shirts and social media graphics. A quick search for it on Amazon brings up hundreds of results, ranging from books for kids and adults to silver charm bracelets to hoodies of many colors to embroidered makeup cases to wall hangings and throw pillows and stickers to place on your rearview mirror. Iâm talking about the simple, uplifting mantra for our times: âYou are enough.â
Surely youâve seen this too. But have you stopped to consider why this phrase, in these settings, is so popular? I see at least two implications.
Burden of Inadequacy
Insecurity about our worth is a massive problem in our culture. Iâm not just talking about how wide the problem must reach if this phrase pops up all over the place. Iâm talking about how deep the problem must go. How low must my self-view be if I get a boost from a statement made by who knows who, about no one in particular, and mass-produced for sale at suburban HomeGoods megastores?
This phraseâs popularity fits perfectly with what French sociologist Alain Ehrenberg argues in The Weariness of the Self, his history of depression among contemporary Western people. Itâs not a book about how to cope with depression, all the mysterious factors that cause it, or how to get rid of it. Itâs a book about what depressed people say about themselves, about how they describe their experience.
He believes depression has spread the way it has, when and where it has, because of the cultural expectation that itâs up to each individual to define the meaning and value of his own life. The defining feature of modern depression, based on interviews of sufferers, is a suffocating sense of inadequacy. Hereâs how Ehrenberg puts it: âDepression presents itself as an illness of responsibility in which the dominant feeling is that of failure. The depressed individual is unable to measure up; he is tired of having to become himself. . . . The depressed person is a person out of gas.â
âYou are enoughâ is a symptom of a deep and pervasive problem in our culture. Many people feel relentlessly, hopelessly inadequate and long for relief.
Desire for Justification
Many people feel relentlessly, hopelessly inadequate and long for relief.
Humans have an inevitable craving for validation. We desperately want to measure up. We need to hear from someone else that we do.
The theological category for the validation we crave is justification. Think of it like a courtroom where a judge gives a verdict on your standing before him. The biblical vocabulary word for a statement like âYou are enoughâ is righteous. To be righteous is to have right standing before the proper authority, to have a life that measures up. Itâs being exactly what youâre supposed to be. When youâre righteous, youâre enough.
We arenât wrong to crave justification. Itâs supposed to matter to us whether weâre good enough. This is core to our humanity. But everything depends on where we look for this validation, on what basis, and when.
The only person authorized to tell us weâre enough is the God who gave us our lives in the first place. Right at the heart of the gospel is the promise that God already sees us as righteous because of Jesusâs righteousness received through faith. Paul says in Romans that âsince we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christâ (5:1). That means thereâs ânow no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesusâ (8:1). Justification is something we already have if weâre in Christ, a guarantee of our righteous standing before God that we must remember and rest in every day.
And yet the gospel also looks forward. âBy faith,â Paul writes, âwe ourselves eagerly wait for the hope of righteousnessâ (Gal. 5:5). Like so much of what God has promised us, justification has an âalreadyâ and a ânot yetâ dimension. Already by faith weâre righteous in Godâs sight because of Jesus. But weâre waiting for righteousness too.
We desperately want to measure up. We need to hear from someone else that we do.
We donât yet see ourselves as God sees us. For now, we walk by faith and not by sight. With painful clarity we see our failures, not the spotless righteousness in which Jesus wraps us.
On the day of judgment, weâll trade our faith for sight once and for all. Weâll stand before God and receive publicly, unmistakably, and irrevocably what he has promised us alreadyâhis pronouncement of our righteousness in Christ. Weâll know from experience that weâre enough not because of what weâve done with our lives but because of what Jesus has done with his. On that day, and only on that day, will we be finished wondering whether or not we measure up.
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