Building Christ-Centered Friendships in a Lonely World | ActsSocial Podcast ft. Lucas from Hey Friend Podcast

Friendship isn’t always easy in today’s world. We live in an age of quick likes, surface-level conversations, and endless scrolling—but deep, Christ-centered friendships? They’re harder to find.

On this episode of the ActsSocial Podcast, host Chance Olivas sits down with Lucas, co-host of the Hey Friend Podcast, to dive into what real friendship looks like through the lens of faith.

The Heart Behind Hey Friend Podcast

Lucas shares the story behind their podcast, which all started with two simple but powerful words: “Hey friend.”

For him and his co-host, this wasn’t just a casual greeting—it became a mission. A mission to create a space where people could explore authentic relationships built on faith, accountability, and openness.

“Life was never meant to be lived alone. God designed us for real relationships—and real friends call us higher.” – Lucas

Friendship as a Spiritual Discipline

Lucas doesn’t see friendship as something optional. For him, it’s a spiritual discipline—a way we live out the Gospel in everyday life.

He shares three core truths about biblical friendship:

• Accountability – Friends aren’t just there for fun, but to remind us of God’s truth when we drift.
  
  

• Vulnerability – He recalls a powerful night when men at his church opened up about hidden struggles. What began in fear ended in tears, hugs, and freedom.
  
  

• Presence – Friendship isn’t always about fixing things—it’s about simply being there.
  
  

“A true friend is someone who won’t let you run from God. They sit with you in the pain, but they also point you back to hope.” – Lucas

Forgiveness, Friendship, and Freedom

One of the most moving moments in the conversation is Lucas’ story about forgiving his birth mother.

It wasn’t easy. Years of pain and unanswered questions could have left him bitter. But through encouragement from godly friends, Lucas chose forgiveness—and experienced the freedom Christ offers.

“Friendship gave me the courage to forgive. God used my friends to remind me that grace was greater than my hurt.” – Lucas

Go First—Don’t Wait

Lucas leaves listeners with a challenge: Don’t wait for someone else to make the first move.

Reach out. Start the conversation. Invite someone in. Be the one who risks vulnerability.

“Go first. That’s how real friendships begin. Jesus went first for us—now we can go first for others.” – Lucas

Why This Matters for ActsSocial

At ActsSocial, we believe in the same vision Lucas shares: that community matters, friendships matter, and faith-filled relationships can change lives.

That’s why our platform isn’t just another social media site—it’s a place designed for real connections with purpose. Whether it’s through prayer groups, church events, or simply reaching out with a “Hey friend,” ActsSocial is here to help you find and build those life-giving friendships.

✨ Ready to build real friendships?
👉 Join us today at ActsSocial.com

Website: https://heyfriendpodcast.com/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@heyfriendpodcast

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heyfriend_podcast/

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7cQI24Rg5H084byVekvTgR?si=422e50e5e85249a7&nd=1&dlsi=15dcabec42744cf4

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hey-friend/id1729622005 

Final Takeaway

Friendships aren’t just about companionship—they’re about calling each other closer to Christ. And as Lucas reminds us, the best friendships start when we take the first step.

💡 Listen to the full episode of the ActsSocial Podcast featuring Lucas from the Hey Friend Podcast—and discover how you can begin building deeper, faith-driven friendships that last a lifetime.